Thinking Out Loud

Non-religious thoughts on life, faith & spirituality 

Have you ever had a 'supernatural', mystical, or otherwise unexplainable experience?

Tonight at Mosaic, the faith community I'm part of, we're starting a series of conversations about the supernatural. I'm really interested to see how this conversation unfolds.

We're starting off tonight with simply sharing and telling our stories and experiences. We're not looking to start the conversation around either biblical conversations nor charismatic church experiences. It can simply be any experience - good or bad - that had an other worldly feel to it. Whether it can be explained somehow is not relevant at this stage, the fact that we felt it was supernatural is all that matters.

Linked with this, I wanted to open the conversation to anyone, of any faith perspective, to share your experiences too. We'll be having this conversation throughout Lent, and the more voices that are part of the conversation the better.

So, over to you. Have you ever had a 'supernatural', mystical, or otherwise unexplainable experience?

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Stay married, have an affair, don't get caught!

There I was working away and then, out of the blue, someone sends me a Skype message.

Who's it from, I wonder. Marina? Who's that?! Let's see what they have to say:

There are thousands of unhappy married women and men in every city, but they DO NOT want to leave their spouse. They want to stay married, but they want to have an affair without ever being caught. Our dating community is extremely popular!

Having an affair can be stressful because you never know if the other person involved is going to get attached to you. You just want to have an intimate encounter and nothing else. 

A great thing about this Discreet Dating Community For Married People is that there is no cost to join. You can check it out, see if you like it, and then begin contacting married people for secret intimate encounters.

Press here if you want to have an affair with a married person: [Website removed]

Blimey. What does this kind of thing say about the state of our world?! It's shocking the amount of websites that are appearing to help people have affairs.

The sad things is that there ARE a lot of unhappy married people and that does make an affair more appealing/likely. So how can we help people have great marriages that minimise the risks of one or both looking elsewhere?

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Who is a church?

Whenever we think about church, we tend to think about it in the form of a ‘what’ question. We ask ‘what is a church’?

But could this be part of the problem in our thinking about church today? We are trying to define church based on the wrong question. Somebody asks us what a church is and that immediately frames how we will respond.

We talk about what the church does rather than who the church is.

Most people who have been around church for a while would probably give mental assent to the idea that church is about the people. And yet, everything we actually focus on tends to be about what the church does.

How can we move from the place of giving mental assent to the idea of church being the people to actually being and doing church in such a way that embodies that truth?

What would it look like to talk about the church in human terms rather than functional ones?

How would that change our own thinking about church and what others perceive church to be?

*This is actually a repost from The Future Now from around a year ago.

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The Future Now is no more; it's now Thinking Out Loud

I've decided to the rename this blog. I've used 'The Future Now' in various forms for a while now but have decided it's time for a change.

I'm going to go with 'Thinking Out Loud'.

The thinking behind this is that I want to use this space more regularly for speaking my mind on issues related to life, religion, spirituality, and relevant cultural topics. 

I've tended to play it relatively safe in this space up until now. I may just be a little bit more controversial. We'll see!

Feel free to share your thoughts on the new name and if there's any subject you'd like me to think out loud about.

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Sam does Lent!

I've never really done Lent. Well, I kinda did last year and had one day a week when I didn't do social media. But, to be honest, my thoughts about Lent have been very similar to my thoughts about New Years resolutions: if something is worth doing, you should do it anyway.

That said, as a community we've decided to make a big focus around Lent this time around. Throughout Lent we're going to be having a series of conversations about the supernatural/mystical/weird. I'm looking forward to seeing what comes up.

As well as this though, many of the Mosaic community in Sheffield are going to be giving something up and then pooling the money we save from what we give up towards a big service project we're going to take on some time after Easter. This is really exciting to me. Giving something up is alright, but giving something up in such a way that will benefit the needy seems a whole lot better.

What are you doing for Lent, if anything?

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The Rapture

I loved this parable by Peter Rollins and thought I'd share it:

Just as it was written by those prophets of old, the last days of the Earth overflowed with suffering and pain. In those dark days a huge pale horse rode through the earth with Death upon its back and Hell in its wake. During this great tribulation the Earth was scorched with the fires of war, rivers ran red with blood, the soil withheld its fruit and disease descended like a mist. One by one all the nations of the Earth were brought to their knees.

Far from all the suffering, high up in the heavenly realm, God watched the events unfold with a heavy heart. An ominous silence had descended upon heaven as the angels witnessed the Earth being plunged into darkness and despair. But this could only continue for so long for, at a designated time, God stood upright, breathed deeply and addressed the angels,

“The time has now come for me to separate the sheep from the goats, the healthy wheat from the inedible chaff”

Having spoken these words God slowly turned to face the world and called forth to the church with a booming voice,

“Rise up and ascend to heaven all of you who have who have sought to escape the horrors of this world by sheltering beneath my wing. Come to me all who have turned from this suffering world by calling out ‘Lord, Lord’”.

In an instant millions where caught up in the clouds and ascended into the heavenly realm. Leaving the suffering world behind them.

Once this great rapture had taken place God paused for a moment and then addressed the angels, saying,

“It is done, I have separated the people born of my spirit from those who have turned from me. It is time now for us leave this place and take up residence in the Earth, for it is there that we shall find our people. The ones who would forsake heaven in order to serve the earth. The few who would turn away from eternity itself to serve at the feet of a fragile, broken life that passes from existence in but an instant”.

And so it was that God and the heavenly host left that place to dwell among those who had rooted themselves upon the earth. Quietly supporting the ones who had forsaken God for the world and thus who bore the mark of God. The few who had discovered heaven in the very act of forsaking it. 

What do you think?

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Is anything too hard for God?

I love this from Genesis 18:

13 Then the Lord said to Abraham, “Why did Sarah laugh and say, ‘Will I really have a child, now that I am old?’14 Is anything too hard for the Lord? I will return to you at the appointed time next year and Sarah will have a son.”

It is so easy to only see things based on what is impossible. What if we were to see more of the situations and circumstances around us from God's perspective?

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Atheism is a profoundly Christian position?

I read the below comments this morning from 'An Orthodox Heresy' by Peter Rollins:

"...a philosophically coherent atheism can be described as a profoundly Judaeo-Christian position, for it is a position that refuses to let any description colonize the source that we call God, a source that stands outside temporal duration and spatial location. Once we understand this, we can stop arguing about God and...dedicate our lives to being the manifestation of God."

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Living a big life

I'm browsing through the introduction to a Christmas book called 'Awakening The Heroes Within'. I loved this quote that jumped out at me:

"Many of us try to achieve a big life by amassing material possessions, or achievements, or property, or experiences, but this never works. We can have big lives only if we are willing to become big ourselves and, in the process, give up the illusion of powerlessness and take responsibility for our lives."

I though this was a relevant reminder this Christmas.

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Coming soon: Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters

My good friend Lon Wong has taken the initiative and got several of us who are dads with daughters to do a group blog. We're going to all take a different chapter from the book 'Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters' by Meg Meeker and blog about it.

I'll copy-post my particular entry (on chapter four) on this blog here but Lon is going to coordinate all of the posts on his blog and that'll be where there'll be conversation around each of the different chapters.

I'm really looking forward to this and would encourage anyone who's a dad with a daughter to follow this series (and grab a copy of the book).

I started reading chapter one this weekend and am already finding it really eye-opening.

The series will kick off on Monday (16th November).

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